Bereaving the Loss of a Beloved Dog: Getting Help

TOLL FREE! PET LOSS HOTLINES

Grief Recovery Hotline
(800) 445-4808
Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm PST

The Iams Pet Loss Support Center & Hotline
(888) 332-7738 Monday thru Saturday, 8am to 8pm

Iowa State University Pet-Loss Support Hotline
(888) 478-7574
Staffed by Volunteers of the Iowa State University Veterinary Teaching Hospital http://www.vetmed.iastate.edu/support/
September thru April: 7 days a week, 6pm to 9pm CST
May thru August: Monday, Wednesday & Friday, 6pm to 9pm CST

College of Veterinary Medicine at the University of Illinois
C.A.R.E. Pet Loss Helpline
(877) 394-2273
http://net.cvm.uiuc.edu/CARE/
The C.A.R.E. Helpline is staffed by veterinary students who have have received training from grief counselors. They also receive supervision from a licensed psychologist.

American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA) National Pet Loss Hotline
424 East 92nd St., New York, NY 10128
(800) 946-4646, 24 hours a day - use your keypad to punch in the pin number 140-7211 and then your own phone number. The call will be returned immediately.
Contact: Stephanie LaFarge, Ph.D
New York City residents may be seen in person at the ASPCA headquarters.

University of California - Davis, School of Veterinary Medicine, Pet Loss Support Hotline
(800) 565-1526
6:30pm to 9:30pm PST Monday thru Friday
Summer Hours: 6:30pm to 9:30pm PST Tuesday thru Thursday
Calls may be returned collect if no counselor is currently available.

Pet Loss Support Pet Friends
(800) 404-PETS
P.O. Box 131
Moorestown, NJ 08057-0131
Long distance calls will be returned collect.

University of Florida Pet Loss Support Hotline, Gainesville
(352) 392-4700, Ext. 4080
Staffed by University of Florida Veterinary students
Calls will be returned 7pm to 9pm EST
Website - http://neuro.vetmed.ufl.edu/alt_med/petgrief/petloss.htm
This hotline will call back anyone, anywhere, at no cost to the caller.

The Chicago Veterinary Medical Association Pet Loss Support Helpline
Emil and Mary Baukert. C/O Riser Animal Hospital, 5335 W. Touhy Ave., Skokie, IL 60077
(630) 603-3994
This Helpline was established in 1993. It provides referral materials on professional grief counseling and information packets on the areas of children & grief, euthanasia, pet loss & the elderly, and a pet loss bibliography. A volunteer will pick up voice messages and call back between 7pm and 9pm CST every evening. Long distance calls will be returned collect.

Companion Animal Association of Arizona Pet Grief Support Hotline
P.O. Box 5006, Scottsdale, AZ 85261-5006
(602) 995-5885
This helpline is operated by trained volunteers 24 hours a day. Long distance calls will be returned collect.

Delta Society Pet Loss Support Hotline
Palm Springs Network
146 Pali, Palm Springs, Ca 92264
(619) 320-3298

Michigan State University Pet Loss Support, College of Veterinary Medicine
Clinical Center, C-100 East Lansing, MI 48824
(517) 353-5064
Contact: Sally Walshaw, M.A., V.M.D.
The Hotline is staffed by veterinary student volunteers from 6:30pm to 9:30pm EST on Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays.

Tufts University Pet Loss Support Hotline
(508) 839-7966
Hours: Monday thru Friday, 6:00pm to 9:00 pm EST

Companion Animal Hospital Pet Loss Support Hotline
Box 35, College of Veterinary Medicine, Cornell University, Ithaca, NY 14853-6401
(607) 253-3932
Hours: 6:00pm to 9:00pm EST, Tuesday thru Thursday

The Ohio State University Pet Loss Hotline
(614) 292-1823
This hotline is in operation Monday, Wednesday & Friday, 6:30pm to 9:30pm CST.

Virginia-Maryland Regional College of Veterinary Medicine Pet Loss Support Hotline
(540) 231-8038
Hours: Tuesday and Thursday, 6:00pm to 9:00pm EST

The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement's Chat Rooms are designed to provide a safe and supportive haven for those who have lost a beloved animal companion. Discussions are not ones for social chatting, as they are solely designated to cover topics related to pet loss and bereavement. It is important to note that while these chat rooms are caring and highly effective discussions, they should not be confused with clinical psychological counseling sessions. Rather, the focus is solely on pet bereavement. Although the tone is one of compassion and constructive supportiveness, this association cannot always regulate the variables that may arise in such an environment. In addition, advice or other considerations that are offered should not be construed as part of a professional counseling session. Those who are newly bereaved and visiting a chat room for the first time should try to come in as early as possible. In that way, more individual attention can be provided as chats can get crowded later on in the sessions.

Friday: 8-11pm EST: Dr. Wallace Sife, Moderator and Ellie Waldron, Co-host

Wednesday: 8-11pm EST: Ellie Waldron, Moderator and Ursula Brower, Co-host

Sunday: 2-5pm EST: Ursula Brower, Moderator

Monday: 8-11pm EST: Ursula Brower, Moderator

Dr. Sife, Ellie, and Ursula can be reached at aplb@aplb.org if you are in deep bereavement and need to communicate before their next scheduled chat time.

PET LOSS SUPPORT GROUPS & COUNSELORS

Pet Loss Support Group - Cathy Holdt
College Library
4180 N. College Avenue
Indianapolis, IN 46220
This group meets the 2nd Saturday of the month from 2 to 4pm.
(317) 251-4028 - telephone support available at any time
Web: www.inpetloss.org

Mary Hardesty, MS
Affiliated Counseling
2512 Covington Street
West Lafayette, IN 47906
(765) 497-3932

Alice Jane Fitzgerald, MS, LMHC, CADAC II
2320 Clifty Hollow Road
Madison, IN 47250
(812) 265-6707
Email: smithfitz@voyager.net

Mona Mathis, LCSW
Mathis Counseling Services, Inc.
PO Box 6675
South Bend, IN 46660-6575
Phone: 574-273-1598
www.mathiscounseling.com

PET LOSS CEMETERIES AND CREMATORIES

Albany: Harrold's Pet Cemetery, De Soto Rd., Albany, IN 47320, (317) 282-7062

Elkhart:Faithful Friends Pet After Care Services, 1606 Navajo St., Elkhart, IN 46516, 574-389-9900 or 877-981-9900; http://www.faithfulpetfriends.com

Evansville: Pet Haven Cemetery, Evansville, IN 47714, (812) 476-3115

Ferdinand: Mt Hope Pet Cemetery, 8657 Mt Hope Rd., Ferdinand, IN 47532, (812) 367-9232

Ft. Wayne:Minnick Animal Crematory Corp., P. O. Box 11100, Fort Wayne, IN 46855, 800/342-5676

Hope: Pet Cremations, 11550E 950N, Hope, IN; (812) 587-5576, fax (812) 587-0447

Indianapolis: Memory Gardens Cemetery for Pets, 9055 Pendleton Pike, Indianapolis, IN 46236, (317) 895-9055

Indianapolis: Pet Rest, Indianapolis, IN 46204, (317) 631-8228

Jeffersonville: Ohio Valley Pet Cemetery, 2810 Coopers Ln., Jeffersonville, IN 47131, (812) 282-3947

La Porte: Journeys End Pet Cemetery, 4034 S US Highway 35, La Porte, IN 46350-9229, (219) 393-3558

Marion: Pet Rest Cemetery, Lincoln Blvd., Marion, IN 46952, (317) 664-8785

Mt. Vernon: Peaceful Pets Cemetery, 1325 Mackey Ferry Road, Mount Vernon, IN 47620, (812) 838-0811

Muncie: Harrolds Pet Cemetery, De Soto Rd., Muncie, IN 47306, 1-888-207-4027

Salem: The Farm Pet Cemetery, 2375 N New Salem Road, Salem, IN 47167, (812) 967-2119

Schererville: Southlake Pet Cemetery, Schererville, IN 46375, (219) 322-2225

W. Lafayette: Pet Haven Cemetery, P.O. Box 2437, W. Lafayette, IN 47906, (765) 567-2848, http://www.sbshow.com/IN/PetHavenCemetery/

Washington: Sunnyside Pet Farm Burial, 12 E. Oak St., Washington, IN 47501-3507, (812) 254-4746

The above resources only serve as a guide. Although I am a Nationally Certified School Psychologist published in the field of human loss and bereavement (Stress and Illness in the Family: A Linear versus Family Life Space Perspective; The Child with Cancer: A Life Space Study of Six Families), I do not have personal knowledge of the expertise of any of those persons or facilities providing these pet loss services.